How to Solve Problems in Life – A New Perspective
Suppose you’re facing a problem that needs to be solved. It could be an obstacle in your career, a complication in your personal life, or a challenge in your business. At first, you tried to think it through on your own—but found no solution. Then, you discussed it with friends or colleagues. Someone offered advice, and you tried it—but it didn’t work either.
Eventually, you might find yourself wondering, “Maybe this is a problem that has no solution!”
But is that really true?
The truth is, most of us are more focused on finding a quick fix than understanding the real cause of the problem. As a result, the problem may disappear for a while, but it soon returns—sometimes even bigger than before.
If you’ve ever felt stuck like this, you’re not alone. And the good news is: there’s a better way.
In this article, you’ll learn how to solve problems in life using a powerful method that helps you identify the root cause and solve it for good.
Solving problems effectively isn’t just about giving answers—it’s about asking the right questions, observing from multiple angles, and building the right mindset. This approach is especially important if you want to truly understand how to solve problems in life without repeating the same mistakes.
So, let’s begin this journey of solving problems with a new perspective!
Step-1 : Ask the Question by “Why”
You need to question the problem using “Why”. The answer you get should again be questioned with “Why” and then the next answer should also be questioned with “Why”. Continue asking by “Why” in this manner until you find the root cause of the problem.
Step-2 : Create Multiple Scenarios
You have to create minimum 3 scenarios or chains by asking why, if possible you have to create more scenarios. But yes, it should not be less than three. Because the more scenarios you create, the better solution you will be able to find.
Then you have to see which scenario suits you best to solve the problem, you have to make it final. Then you have to come up with a solution from scratch according to your final scenario. Then your desired problem will be solved automatically.
Now, here is the scenario I have created to solve my problem. If someone else has the same problem, then the same scenario I have created may or may not work for them.
The reason for this is that every person has different characteristics and they have different mentalities. They also have different habits
So my scenario may not solve his problem. So what can be done in this case?
No need to worry, there is a solution for this too.
In fact, in this case, the basic formula is that the person who has the problem will create the scenario according to his characteristics. This is the most effective.
And if someone else wants to create the scenario, then the scenario should be created according to the characteristics of the person around whom the problem is.
By creating the scenario and working in this way, the problem will actually be solved.
Step-3 : Move Forward with the Right Mindset
Even after all this, you cannot expect an instant solution. Because it would be really foolish to expect that the problem that has been created for a long time, which has been mixed with your habit, will vanish with your one effort. Just as the problem has been created day by day, if you follow the above rules, the solution will also come day by day. In this way, at a certain stage, the entire problem will be solved.
But if you have the wrong mindset, if you think I have learned a great technique of problem solving, I will apply it and solve it instantly. Then you will only be disappointed. Even the whole process of problem solving may fail, because of your Wrong-Mindset.
So fix your Mindset from now.
It is true that if you solve problems using the above formula, then you may start getting a little bit of results from the first day, But don’t expect complete results on the first day.
Many people may be able to grasp the matter easily. On the other hand, for many people, the matter may seem very complicated, they must be thinking in their hearts, brother, what are you trying to say! please clarify the matter, everything is going over my head!
No problem, I will now give an example, through which the whole matter will become crystal clear to you.
Let’s take a practical problem first.
Problem:
I wake up very late every morning, even though I set an alarm every night before going to bed and at the same time swear that I will wake up at the right time tomorrow. But the next day when I wake up and see that I am still very late today, I get very angry with myself. As a result, my mood becomes irritable and the whole day does not go very well. This is how my every day goes.
Anyway, I basically want to wake up at the right time every day, that is, early in the morning. (In my case, it would be 6 am)
Solution (Step-1) :
Scenario-1 :
- Why can’t I wake up early? ➠ Because I don’t get enough sleep by then.
- Why don’t I get enough sleep? ➠ Because I sleep late at night.
- Why do I go to bed late at night? ➠ Because using my phone for 2 hours before sleeping has become a habit. If I don’t do it, I feel uneasy and restless. As a result, I go to sleep late.
That means, I need to change the habit of using my mobile phone just before going to bed and establish a new habit here. It could be reading a book or not going near my mobile phone for two hours before sleeping etc.
Alternatively,
If I absolutely cannot stay without using my phone before sleeping! then I need to go to bed 2 hours earlier. For example, if I want to sleep at 10 PM, I should get into bed by 8 PM. This way, after using my phone for two hours, when my brain gets tired, I will naturally fall asleep around 10 PM.. It means, I got to use my mobile and also slept on time. That’s awesome, right?!!!
Scenario-2 :
- Why can’t I wake up early? ➠ Because I don’t have a strong reason to wake up early.
So I need a strong reason to wake up.
Now some people might ask, “Does anyone even want to wake up early without a reason?” Look, you have a reason, but still you can’t wake up. That means your reason is not strong enough.
You have to have a reason to wake up, which if you miss, you will lose something or you will be harmed or you will be punished. And the punishment should be of such a type that you cannot accept easily. Then you will wake up even if it is just to avoid that punishment.
For example, if you fail to wake up, you will pay 10 dollar to your friend every day or it can be something else. You have to make it according to your interest.
Scenario-3 :
- Why can’t I wake up early? ➠ Because I go to bed too late at night. Although I want to sleep earlier. But in the end, it doesn’t happen anymore.
- Why does this happen? ➠ Because I have saved it in my brain, the time to sleep is 12 am or 1 am. As a result, no matter what I do, I don’t feel sleepy until 12 AM or 1 AM.
So, I need to change the set sleep time in my brain. How do I do this?
Everyday, I need to repeatedly tell myself that 10 PM is my bedtime. But just saying it won’t be enough—I must complete all my tasks and get into bed by 10 PM. At first, I will have to force myself to do this for a few days. After some days, this new routine will be saved in my long-term memory.
As a result, just like I currently feel sleepy when it’s 1 AM, I will start feeling sleepy naturally at 10 PM. Eventually, I will go to bed automatically at the right time.
Scenario-4 :
- Why can’t I wake up early in the morning? ➠ Because I turn off the alarm and go back to sleep.
- Why do I turn off the alarm? ➠ Because at that moment, I think, “I’m already awake. Sleeping five extra minutes won’t hurt much. I’ll get up exactly five minutes later.” This leads to falling back into another sleep cycle, and I don’t even realize it.
- Why do I do this? ➠ Because I don’t get enough sleep. As a result, I have a tendency to want a bit more sleep. Or, ➠ Because I don’t have an urgent task at that time. In other words, I don’t have a strong reason to get up. If I had one, I would get up immediately.
Here, Many people might suggest keeping your phone away before sleeping so that you have to get up to turn off the alarm. Some recommend using a puzzle alarm app, where you need to solve a puzzle to turn off the alarm, helping you wake up.
However, in reality, these tricks may work for 2-4 days, but eventually, you will go back to your old habits. This is not a permanent solution because turning off the alarm or solving a puzzle doesn’t take much time. In such a short span, your sleepiness doesn’t completely wear off, so you might go back to sleep again. Moreover, if you don’t get sufficient sleep, you might be in deep sleep and not even hear the alarm at all.
So, the permanent solution is to ensure you get enough sleep—how you do it is up to you, but you must ensure it. Then, set an alarm and have a strong reason to wake up. That’s it.
Solution (Step-2) :
Now I am finalizing Scenario-1 from the above scenarios. I think it is perfect for me. Maybe I want to establish a new habit here instead of using my mobile before going to bed at night. I really like reading books, so from now on maybe I will read books at this time. And I cannot read books for a long time at a time. So after some time, I will naturally feel tired and fall asleep.
Solution (Step-3) :
At the same time, I also know that I will have to force myself to do this for the first few days. Since I am not used to it, it’s natural that I won’t feel like doing it initially. For this reason, I will need to be patient in the beginning. After some days, it will become a habit, and everything will happen automatically.
Summary :
Step-1 : Find the Root of the problem by Repeatedly Asking the question “Why?”.
Step-2 : Create At least Three Scenarios in this way and finalize one of them and get to work.
Step-3 : First Create the Right-Mindset, then start working.
Key Points to Note :
➦ Notice that while giving the example, I repeatedly asked, “Why can’t I wake up early in the morning?” Here, the word “I” has been used. This means I tried to solve the problem from my perspective. Similarly, You need to create scenarios and solve your problem based on your own perspective and characteristics.
➦ Do not expect a quick response. If you proceed with such a flawed mindset, not only will your problem remain unsolved, but it will also never leave you. You will remain a troubled person for life. So, I repeat, Proceed with the Right-Mindset because this is the step where most people make mistakes!!!
Additionally, if you have any difficulty understanding anything, any suggestions, or if you’re interested in a new topic, feel free to comment and let us know.
Thank you!
Is there a possibility that taking a step back and reevaluating the problem from a different perspective could lead to a more effective solution?
Of course, it is possible. You can take a step back and think about it from different angles according to your own characteristics. This way, effective solutions can also be found. Thanks a lot for your comment.
When faced with a problem, it’s easy to get stuck in the cycle of quick fixes without addressing the root cause. The approach of repeatedly asking “Why” is a powerful tool to dig deeper and understand the true source of the issue. However, patience is key, as real solutions often take time and consistent effort. Have you ever considered how habits and daily actions contribute to the problems we face? Why do we often prioritize temporary fixes over lasting solutions?
You have noticed a very important point, I will try to write a detailed article on it, “Why are people so interested in temporary and quick solutions?” What is the way out of this?
It’s interesting how identifying the root cause of a problem can lead to a more sustainable solution. Often, we focus on quick fixes rather than understanding the deeper issue, which only provides temporary relief. By continuously asking “Why,” we can uncover the true source of the problem and address it effectively. Patience is key, as significant change takes time and consistent effort. Why do you think we tend to prioritize immediate solutions over long-term fixes?
We tend to look for immediate solutions to problems rather than long-term solutions. There is actually some psychological issue here. A detailed article on this topic is coming soon…
This text offers valuable insights into problem-solving by focusing on root causes rather than quick fixes. Many people struggle with recurring issues because they don’t dig deep enough into the real reasons. The “5 Whys” technique presented here forces us to examine problems thoroughly, leading to lasting solutions. However, change takes time and consistency, especially when habits are deeply ingrained.
*Why do so many people settle for temporary fixes instead of addressing the real cause of their problems?*
Here’s the comment:
It’s interesting how often we rush to fix the surface issue without understanding the deeper cause. The “5 Whys” method seems simple but could be powerful in breaking repetitive problems. Habits like waking up late show how deeply rooted certain challenges can be—just setting an alarm isn’t enough. Consistency and patience are key to real change.
*Do you think most people avoid deep problem-solving because it feels overwhelming or time-consuming?*
Yes, you are right. One reason for not wanting to solve a problem from scratch is that it is time-consuming. And people prefer to get quick results from a task. This is mainly because of dopamine. People prefer to do those tasks that release more dopamine in a short time. Anyway, a detailed article on this topic is coming soon. I hope the article will be very helpful and beneficial for everyone.
This text really makes you think about how we approach problems in life. I’ve often found myself looking for quick fixes instead of digging deeper to understand the root cause. The idea of repeatedly asking “Why” seems simple but powerful—it’s like peeling an onion to get to the core. I’ve tried it with my own habits, like procrastination, and it’s surprising how much clarity it brings. However, I wonder if this method works for every type of problem or if there are exceptions. What if the root cause is something we can’t control? Also, how do you stay patient when the solution takes time to show results? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this—have you tried this approach, and did it work for you?
First of all, thank you, because your question was truly amazing.
Answer: If the solution to any problem takes time to show results, then what you should do is break the problem into smaller parts from the very beginning and solve each part step by step. Keep each part so easy and simple that your brain doesn’t feel it as painful. Then, after completing each part, you’ll be able to realize your progress. And that will make you feel happy. At that point, you’ll gain the motivation to continue your next task. In other words,
“Progress brings happiness, and happiness brings motivation.”
For example, if you want to learn the English language, you’ll need to learn English vocabulary, learn how to form sentences, understand grammar rules, practice speaking and listening, etc. Now, if you try to do everything at once from the beginning, it will feel very frustrating to you, and you won’t be able to continue for long — eventually, you’ll quit.
The right method is: you should learn five English words every day. Continue this for a few days. Then, when you see that you can name all the surrounding things in English, you’ll naturally feel good, because now you can see your progress. As a result, you’ll be eager to move on to the next step with genuine interest…
I found this text really insightful, especially the part about questioning the problem with “Why” repeatedly. It’s so true that we often look for quick fixes instead of digging deeper to find the root cause. The example about waking up late is relatable—I’ve been there, and it’s frustrating when the same issue keeps coming back. I wonder, though, how do you stay consistent with this method when the problem feels overwhelming? Do you think it’s possible to apply this approach to every problem, or are there exceptions? I’d love to hear your thoughts on how to maintain patience and discipline while working through long-standing issues. What’s your experience with this method—has it worked for you?
To stay consistent, break a complex task into very small parts—so small that your brain finds it easy. After completing each small task, reward yourself with something simple, like listening to a song or enjoying a favorite treat. This trains your brain to associate the task with something positive, making you want to do it again and again. Doing this makes even big tasks easier!
The “Why” method seems like a solid approach to digging deep into problems. I agree that solving issues requires patience and consistent effort rather than expecting instant results. Your example of waking up late is relatable, and breaking old habits is indeed challenging. I wonder, though, how do you plan to stay consistent with avoiding your phone before bed? Do you think replacing it with another habit, like reading, will be enough? Also, have you considered other factors, like your sleep environment or stress levels, that might contribute to your late wake-ups? It feels like there’s more to explore here—what’s your take?
You are absolutely right. The habit of reading a book before bed will not work for everyone or will not be enough to change the habit. There are two things here. First, the main theme of this article is “How to solve a problem, with its basic steps.” In this case, the issue of getting up in the morning has been taken as an example for the convenience of understanding. So, it has not been broken down in too much detail. Second, the article says that you have to think about how to solve the problem from your angle. The methods given in the article on how to get up in the morning are from my perspective. It may not work in your case. To solve the problem for you, you have to think carefully according to your perspective and habits. Only then will the real way to solve the problem come out.
This text is in English, so I’ll respond in English.
Interesting approach to problem-solving! Breaking down issues by repeatedly asking “Why” seems like a practical way to get to the root cause. Your example about waking up late is relatable—I think many of us struggle with similar habits. However, I wonder if the solution is always as straightforward as replacing one habit with another. What if external factors, like stress or workload, are influencing the problem? Do you think identifying those would help in crafting a more effective solution? Also, I’m curious, how do you stay consistent with the new habits once you’ve established them? It’s one thing to start, but maintaining momentum is often the hardest part. Lastly, do you think this method can be applied to more complex, less personal problems, like professional or societal issues?
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